Harvard biologist E.O. Wilson famously said, "We are drowning in information, while starving for wisdom."
He's not wrong. Research shows us what children need to thrive. But the overflow of opinions can leave us in a shame spiral or paralyzed with confusion.
Here you'll find simple evidence-based tools to confidently meet any developmental stage while prioritizing your relationship & your child's needs. Reclaim your inner wisdom.
You're unsure what to do or say in the heat of the moment
You tend to give in & feel resentful or explode & feel guilty
You struggle with perfectionism & anxious thoughts
You don't understand your kid's reactions & parenting feels like a chore
You find yourself repeating negative aspects of your own childhood
You've read a ton of parenting books but the information doesn't stick
"It is crucial we take the time to pause and reflect on our emotional responses to our children. By deepening our understanding of our own emotional experience, we are better able to relate empathically with our children and promote their self-understanding and healthy development."
Daniel J. Siegel, M.D.
Research from the US Department of Health and Human Services shows that when these 6 Protective Factors are well-established in a family, optimal child development occurs.
Parent coaching and education can help satisfy all 6 Protective Factors.
Protective Factor 1:
PROTECTIVE FACTOR 2:
PROTECTIVE FACTOR 3:
Protective Factor 4:
PROTECTIVE FACTOR 5:
PROTECTIVE FACTOR 6:
Nurturing and attachment
Knowledge of parenting for child and youth development
Parental resilience
Social connections
Concrete support for parents
Social and emotional competence of children
Social connections
Concrete support for parents
Social and emotional competence of children
"Ali and this class have single-handedly changed the trajectory of my relationship with my kids. I highly recommend reaching out to Ali even if your children are seemingly perfect. You’ll see them and their ways of communicating in a whole new light, and it will be the best thing you can do for you and them."
Laura Grubb
Mom of three children, 9, 7, & 4
"Ali is absolutely wonderful! She has such a beautiful, calm spirit. I’d been dipping my toes into peaceful parenting, and I knew after talking to Ali that she was the perfect fit for me and my family. Her approach is fluid and not at all daunting. The course is jam-packed full of really wonderful information and parenting resources. You will not be disappointed!"
Scarlett Lawrence
Mom of three children, 8, 4, & 1
In just 12 weeks, meet any parenting challenge with confidence, clarity and deep connection.
This is a prime opportunity for you and your spouse to get on the same page in your parenting while strengthening your communication and connection.
FOR COUPLES:
FOR SMALL GROUPS:
Strengthen your communication
Learn proactive & reactive strategies
Understand your children & your partner in a new light
Get back on the same page
12 video lessons + 12 recaps
Reflective workbook prompts
Deep personal growth & healing
Learn optimal child development
Change generational patterns
Practical & gentle strategies
12 video lessons + 12 recaps
Reflective workbook prompts
Unlimited email support
Learn Hand in Hand's pioneering approach
6 video lessons + reading material
Explore specific issues with behavior
Learn practical, connection-based tools
Create a family connection plan
The choices we make today matter. Let's make the most of the time we have with our kids at home with us.
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