Parenting today poses a dilemma. 

Harvard biologist E.O. Wilson famously said, "We are drowning in information, while starving for wisdom."  

He's not wrong. Research shows us what children need to thrive. But the overflow of opinions can leave us in a shame spiral or paralyzed with confusion. 

Here you'll find simple evidence-based tools to confidently meet any developmental stage while prioritizing your relationship & your child's needs. Reclaim your inner wisdom.    

Do any of these sound familiar?

You're in the Right Spot if...

You're unsure what to do or say in the heat of the moment 


You tend to give in & feel resentful or explode & feel guilty


You struggle with perfectionism & anxious thoughts


You don't understand your kid's reactions & parenting feels like a chore 


You find yourself repeating negative aspects of your own childhood


You've read a ton of parenting books but the information doesn't stick

"It is crucial we take the time to pause and reflect on our emotional responses to our children. By deepening our understanding of our own emotional experience, we are better able to relate empathically with our children and promote their self-understanding and healthy development."

Daniel J. Siegel, M.D.

This is everything! 

Did You Know?

Research from the US Department of Health and Human Services shows that when these 6 Protective Factors are well-established in a family, optimal child development occurs. 

Parent coaching and education can help satisfy all 6 Protective Factors.

Protective Factor 1:




PROTECTIVE FACTOR 2:





PROTECTIVE FACTOR 3:

Protective Factor 4:




PROTECTIVE FACTOR 5:





PROTECTIVE FACTOR 6:

Nurturing and attachment


Knowledge of parenting for child and youth development


Parental resilience

Social connections


Concrete support for parents


Social and emotional competence of children

Social connections


Concrete support for parents



Social and emotional competence of children

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For Individuals:

Transformational Parenting Process Course + 1:1 Coaching

In just 12 weeks, meet any parenting challenge with confidence, clarity and deep connection.

You'll receive lifetime access to the digital course and we'll meet 12 times (once per week) to receive coaching and practical tools around the specific situations you're experiencing at home and in your life. We'll laugh a lot, too, because parenting is often hilariously absurd. 

Together, we will explore how unconscious beliefs and patterns from your own childhood are showing up in your parenting now. As we do this, you'll be better able to apply new strategies in a way that feels natural and good so you can parent as your highest Self. 
 
The coursework presents a thoughtfully curated selection of the most cutting-edge research on parenting and child development so you can bring lasting positive changes to your family. This is more than just a "parenting how-to", it's a personal growth transformation that will impact every area of your life. 

In these 12 weeks, you will receive:

  • deep weekly coaching to achieve your goals 
  • a deep dive into children's development, behavior, and cognition
  • comprehensive understanding of why you react the way you do and ways to transform generational patterns (reparenting) 
  • an abundance of mind-body tools and practical skills to turn conflicts and hurts into cooperation and connection
  • lifetime access to 12 video lessons & 12 written recaps with reflective journal prompts
  • email support between calls for real-time guidance 

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This is a prime opportunity for you and your spouse to get on the same page in your parenting while strengthening your communication and connection. 


When parents feel a sense of unity and collaboration, day-to-day life with kids becomes more relaxing, enjoyable and easier to navigate. Children feel that ease and thrive within the safety you both provide. 

This is how it works:
  • To begin our work together, you will each have a private one-hour introductory coaching call with me.
  • For the remaining 11 weeks, you will attend the coaching sessions together.

In these 12 weeks, you will receive:
  • deep weekly coaching support to achieve your goals as a family
  • a deep dive into children's development, behavior, and cognition
  • comprehensive understanding of why you react the way you do and ways to transform generational patterns (reparenting) 
  • nonviolent communication techniques to strengthen your relationship as a couple and get both of your needs understood
  • an abundance of mind-body tools and practical skills to turn conflicts and hurts into cooperation and connection in your family
  • lifetime access to 12 video lessons & 12 written recaps with reflective journal prompts
  • email support between calls for real-time guidance 

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Transformational Parenting Process Course + joint Coaching

FOR COUPLES:


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Learn the paradigm-shifting approach of Hand in Hand Parenting to finally understand your children's behavior and your own reactions. Dive deeply into 5 practical and evidence-based listening tools that show you how to handle any parenting scenario - big or small - while keeping your relationship strong, trusting, and fun.  

We'll meet 6 times (once per week) in a small group, where we'll focus on the root cause of your parenting or relationship struggles and most excitingly, discover new solutions that align with what you care about most while bringing you closer together. 

By the end, you'll feel more peaceful, flexible, and confident and have a solid plan of action to use right away.   

Common issues you'll learn how to handle with connection:  
-  anger, aggression, tantrums, crying 
-  separation anxiety, fear, sleep, siblings 
-  playful strategies for offtrack behaviors
-  overwhelm, stress, & guilt in parenting 

You'll receive:
  • lifetime access to the Hand in Hand Starter Class videos 
  • a clear action plan based on your desired outcomes
  • a curated collection of other recommended books and/or educational resources based on your specific parenting concerns
  • a clear understanding of the root cause of behaviors and connection-based tools that reduce conflict 
  • new ways of thinking and interacting 


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parenting by Connection Starter Class + Group Coaching

FOR SMALL GROUPS:


Something for Everyone

12 Couple's Coaching Sessions + Course

Strengthen your communication 

Learn proactive & reactive strategies

Understand your children & your partner in a new light

Get back on the same page  

12 video lessons + 12 recaps

Reflective workbook prompts

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12 Solo Coaching Sessions + Course

Deep personal growth & healing

Learn optimal child development

Change generational patterns

Practical & gentle strategies

12 video lessons + 12 recaps

Reflective workbook prompts

Unlimited email support

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Small Group Coaching + Class

Learn Hand in Hand's pioneering approach

6 video lessons + reading material 

Explore specific issues with behavior

Learn practical, connection-based tools

Create a family connection plan

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Hey, thoughtful parent

The choices we make today matter. Let's make the most of the time we have with our kids at home with us. 

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